The cost of pride

So you can sing really well.. Congratulations but don’t let it get to your head. You are fantastic at your job. Great! Let it not settle in your head though. Because one, you will lose favour with God and with humans. Two, you will destroy your future because God has designed this life to ensureContinue reading “The cost of pride”

Is That a Good Choice?

In 2013, just before one of my contracts ended, I was speaking to one of my mentors who encouraged me to make good choices and that stuck with me. Her words began as  “Are you making good choices?” Now you probably don’t need me to tell you that your choice can either make or marContinue reading “Is That a Good Choice?”

Listen To Him

During this past week, my colleague and I were working on something we weren’t supposed to be working on and within intervals of our work, I kept having a check in my heart as to whether I should really be working on that. This feeling persisted and just as the day ended, after trying toContinue reading “Listen To Him”

You and Your Parents

Let me just start by saying that if you have lost your biological  parents this post is still for you, as you might have adopted or spiritual parents like Paul who was a father to many in the early church. For you can have 10,000 instructors in Christ, but you can’t have many fathers. ForContinue reading “You and Your Parents”

Mind Your Business

My dearly loved brothers, understand this: Everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger (James 1:19) “Ah you slapped a married woman” came the sound from the other end of the compound. Aunty Sandra (not her real name)  was  slapped  just as my family tried to engage in ministration toContinue reading “Mind Your Business”

Stop Stressing

Last week at this time, I was stressing about whether I had a gotten a job or not. This week, I still don’t have a contract yet but I am way happier than I was. What changed? I stopped stressing. I started to enjoy where I was and where the Father has placed me whichContinue reading “Stop Stressing”

How to be resilient; Horatio Spafford case study

Being in development circles, I have heard the term resilience over and over again which has made me sit to think about what resilience means. According to  Mariam Webster,  it is  the ability to become strong, healthy, or successful again after something bad happens. “psychology Today” explains that resilience  is the ineffable quality that allows Continue reading “How to be resilient; Horatio Spafford case study”

Change it back to a moment

Yesterday in my break from my dissertation, I read a book that really touched my heart by Jesse Du Plantis and the maIn thing that struck me  is the fact that this life is a moment compared to eternity. So many times things get difficult and it feels like life is really hard and itContinue reading “Change it back to a moment”

If Everyone is like you

I’d like you to ask yourself the question ” If everyone is like me, would the world be better place”? I bet the answer to that question would be a No. why? Because YOU ARE NOT JESUS See, the only perfect person is Jesus. You need to make Him Lord over you and submit toContinue reading “If Everyone is like you”

Why you should not focus on yourself.

Recently it dawned on me that the start of sin, wickedness and general wrongdoing according to the Bible’s standard  is “belly button gazing” or self centeredness. “And those who are in the flesh [living a life that caters to sinful appetites and impulses] cannot please God”- Romans 8:8 (Amp) So what does living in theContinue reading “Why you should not focus on yourself.”