Struggling with letting go?

It is so easy to forget what God has done for us and hold on to offense. Let me remind you, God took your place in hell and has paid the price for your sins. YOU DID NOT DESERVE IT! Non of us did (do). This is why you must forgive others. You might thinkContinue reading “Struggling with letting go?”

Planning for retirement?

With the face app challenge one cannot just but wonder about aging and dying. Although life expectancy in the developed world is far greater than the expectancy in the developing world, it is important to think about death. For example as of 2016, life expectancy in Germany was 80 years old and in Nigeria itContinue reading “Planning for retirement?”

When it feels like God does not exist

‘God does not exist’ I heard these words everyday in my head for nearly two weeks in 2015. It was ridiculous, I felt like I was running mad. Now having lived in the west at this time, I was well aware of the atheistic philosophy and it was disturbing that I would be plagued andContinue reading “When it feels like God does not exist”

Dear parent

Dear Parent, Teach her that she is enoughTeach her that she is in a class of her own.Teach her that she doesn’t have to be white to be beautiful.Teach her that she has been wonderfully made. Whether she is fat or skinny, teach her not to compare herself with peers.Whether she is fat or skinny,Continue reading “Dear parent”

Fear or Faith? You choose!

As someone who has personally struggled with fear. I know how difficult it is to choose faith. Fam, I used to be afraid of really silly things. As a child, I hated the dark and was always seeing shapes🙄. As an adult I just had a fear hanging over me😏. Trust me, I knew thoseContinue reading “Fear or Faith? You choose!”

4 Lessons from 3 continents

Hi friend, I trust your weekend is going well. Today’s blog is a bit different as I would like to share some insights I have garnered from living in 3 continents. I hope you find it to be a blessing. Come with me and leave comments below. 🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️ 1. In my third week living inContinue reading “4 Lessons from 3 continents”

Favour is my name

In Nigeria, there is a song that starts as “I don’t worry about tomorrow, Favour is my name” and it is pretty common to hear names like Favour, Joy, and Blessing. In fact I have relatives called Mercy and Blessing which is normal in the Nigerian context.  My father had never heard the name beforeContinue reading “Favour is my name”

From Nigeria to Europe

I got married sometime in 2018 to my friend and although he resided in Germany at that time, I was unaware of the hurdles we would cross to live together. Shortly after the wedding, I took the A1 German test which was and still is a requirement for a long term visa. Although I tookContinue reading “From Nigeria to Europe”

Beautiful sex

Sex is a beautiful gift from God which is to be used within the confines of marriage. Are you of the school of thought that the church should “abolish” the no sex before marriage “policy”? Well, today I am here to inform you that it is not a church policy but Jesus Himself put itContinue reading “Beautiful sex”

Help! I think I am better than you.

But He gives greater grace. Therefore, He says:God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble: James 4:6 Pride is something I have had to deal with in my personal life. I know , I haven’t achieved anything yet, is there a reason to be proud? That was my exact thought! However, pride can comeContinue reading “Help! I think I am better than you.”